After having my heart ripped out twice by the same man- i have decided to put down what i want in a man:
- Sweet
- Funny
- Has a good stable job
- Similar interests as me (yet some differences since we all know that if you have too much in common it doesn't always work)
- Similar goals in life
- Doesn't judge
- Is polite and treats me how i should be treated
- Can put up with me being high strung from time to time
- Is understanding
- Will love me no matter what
- Won't lie to me, or cheat
- Won't use me
- Will actually pay attention to me, and spoil me with attention...any maybe spoil me in other ways too (but i mostly just need attention)
- Has a good family life- isn't in "outs" with his family, doesn't dislike his family- Treats his mom like a queen
- Will understand that when i am having a bad day that means he needs to cancel his plans, drive to where ever i am, and comfort me. Even if i tell him not to.
- Won't expect me to make all the decisions in the relationship
- He can't do drugs, drink excessively, or anything else like that- because frankly i'm sick of those kinds of guys.
- Will take me on nice dates, and silly dates, and even cheap ones. I love just going walking and ending up somewhere to get ice cream. I also love dressing up and going out on the town. I love just spending time with my man.
- Isn't a HUGE gamer, i'm sick of men who choose their games over me
- Likes lots of different kinds of music- he has to like lots of different genres. Also has to love cultural things- like going to plays, going to festivals, etc.
- Knows how to dance, or atleast is willing to learn
- Won't blow me off
- is himself
- but most of all: communicates!!!!!
Good list :)
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